Monday, September 22, 2008

And so I get pregnant again, manage to last till the 7th month, develop the same complications and lose the baby again.


Blogger Itchingtowrite said...

i am sorry IA... pls take care

12:10 PM  
Blogger noon said...

Gosh IA - that's really really sad. I don't mean to say this at the wrong time - but am saying this just to give you hope - my good friend (also husband's cousin) had nearly5 miscarriages - one which nearly cost her life because she bled so much on "Holi" and they hard to scramble to get her blood type...but throughout it all she just stood strong and always remained hopeful that it WILL work out - and it did - her son is now 9yrs old - perfectly healthy and extremely happy child. It WILL work out for you too - please don't loose hope hard as it is at the moment. I feel for you IA. But I am sure soon enough it will work out. It has to!

1:11 PM  
Blogger hari said...

Why shud it always happen to good people. God cannot be so bad to you Akka.

Just yesterday, i happen to read an article on reasons of miscarriages due to abnormalities in egg, precisely eggs which do not have a gene holder called spindle. If you have not already checked that angle please do it Akka. If you can send me your address i will courier the article to you. It appeared in TOI dated 21.9.08. My email

Please dont loose heart, there is surely light at the end of the Tunnel.

3:13 PM  
Blogger Sue said...

Am very sorry to hear that. Really am.

4:02 PM  
Blogger GettingThereNow said...

I am so sorry for your loss IA. May you find the strength to cope with it.

6:42 PM  
Anonymous Chips said...

So, so sorry for your loss, Akka. You've had more setbacks recently than one has in a lifetime. Sending a big hug your way.

6:59 PM  
Blogger ~nm said...

I've just no words to say but I still wanted to say something. And I don't even know if "I feel so sorry" will be good enough word to say here.

*Hugs* May god bless you with a healthy happy child very soon!

1:43 PM  
Blogger Timepass said...

Extremely sorry to hear the news. May I have ur email id please,, Mine is

3:36 PM  
Blogger Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

Sorry to hear this! :(

:( :(

5:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear IA,
Nothing I can possibly say can take away the pain and the hopelessness of it all. And I am not even going to try.
My only prayer for you would be the strength to carry on from here. And for you to stay positive and not to be embittered by all of the nightmares that have turned out to be a reality for you.
A big hug...

12:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't know what to say.. I m sorry..

11:05 AM  
Blogger Pollux aka Paps said...

I came in after so long, and saw this again. Had to read it twice. But dont give up hope. That is the hardest thing to do, but try to do it. It will come right. It will.

5:10 AM  
Blogger Ardra said...


12:50 PM  
Blogger Ramyah Subramaniam said...

I'm so sorry for ur loss. But i'm sure He'll give you a precious gift soon. Plz don't lose hope. take care and i pray for u.

10:00 AM  
Blogger MyHijab said...

Hi there. I just read the comment you left on my blog. I am very saddened about the loss of your child. I can't imagine having to go through the same thing.

I am not sure about your medical issues, but I have a problem with blood clotting. I had to be on thinners (Clexane 60mg daily) for the whole of my pregnancy and will be on them for months to come. I had a pulmonary embolism (blood clots in the lungs) after the birth of my first (who is now nearly 5)and this is the reason I am on the injections; more of a precaution.

I pray that you can see that there is hope in every situation. God gives to us only what He knows that we can handle. God obviously sees you to be a very strong human being who He knows will get through this difficult time.

I wish for you all the best. I hope that one day you will have your very own children to nurture, love and care for.

8:35 AM  
Blogger Raju said...

S, very sorry to hear about it. I really hope, wish and pray that this is the last time it happened to you. I can understand that it is hard to be +ve now, but as noon said, it will work out soon, and you will be blessed with a beautiful baby.

12:27 PM  
Anonymous ramya said...

Hugs.. feeling so sorry abt unfortunate events in ur life. I sincerely pray good things happen to u very soon..

6:43 AM  
Blogger Hip Grandma said...

I know words sound hollow but they are all I have.Don't lose hope things will brighten up afterall life is a rotating wheel.

5:59 AM  
Blogger Blogeswari said...

Praying for you, akka

8:23 AM  
Blogger Hip Grandma said...

my blessings to you for a nice and happy new year.

9:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I 2 lost a baby boy in 2 nd trimester.My second baby was saved by using medical intervention.
Sorry for you loss of baby.I wud like to mail you ,since I am also 4m blore in US .

5:43 AM  
Blogger The Inquisitive Akka said...

Hi Asha,
I would like to talk to you. My e-mail id is

1:49 PM  
Blogger Just Like That said...

I hope and pray that you get to do a happy post soon... it seems so long that you have only been writing of terrible terrible losses.... Hugs and wish you a happy new year, dear IA. God bless.

4:34 PM  
Blogger Janefield said...

Hi Akka, I hope and pray you are doing better now. May this new year bring you good wishes and hopes and dreams. God bless.

1:54 AM  
Blogger Collection Of Stars said...

IA, I am so very sorry for your loss. I just saw this post.
You have been in my thoughts for quite some time now ever since you left a comment on my blog about your pregnancy. I was praying that everything would work out for you.
Hugs and hope you are better now.
Take care. Remember, every dark cloud has a silver lining. Good times are sure to follow.

12:43 AM  
Blogger Ekta said...

oh my gawd!
am sorry akka...hug and loads of strength to u

9:11 AM  
Blogger rachana said...

Hello Akka..
My prayers for you.......... I don't have words other than that..
Thanks for saying those soothing words for me, in your comment..

I have to look forward and have to be strong as i have another teenager daughter.... at times life gives pain to us without our fault.. we have live with that...

long ago i wrote little poem "Fight" and another one "We can..." and now i have to live my words....
Love to you...

9:10 AM  
Blogger Pretty Woman said...

I heart your loss, and I know ' I am sorry' sounds insipid....Have faith. I think God alone knows the right time and it will happen at the right time!

I believe so!

12:42 PM  
Blogger Inexplicably said...

Come back here ! Talk !

want to hug you.

1:41 PM  
Blogger Poppins said...

Akka, just saw your comment on MM's blog.
That means you are around. Can you please come back to your blog?

2:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's been long since you have posted this. I hope life has moved on from there by now. Always remember " nothing lasts forever, not even your troubles" Not even this problem.Am sure you will have a wonderful child ,soon too...My prayers are with you .Just hold on with faith.

12:42 PM  
Blogger Collection Of Stars said...

Hi IA, I just saw your comment in Kiran's blog. How are you doing?

2:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Madam, I read your Sep 08 post by chance. Hope things have improved since. I pray for your family.

4:56 PM  
Blogger workhard said...

I am so sorry to hear about that.. u take care...

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9:42 PM  

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